By Cynthia L. Simmons
Q: What is one way to leave a legacy to the next generation of women?
We tend to think of legacy as leaving behind a material object or a sterling reputation.
But as I have researched women in history, I have come to realize that leaving a legacy can also mean bringing someone else along and teaching them what you’ve learned.
Madison’s Mind, Dolley’s Magnetism
For example, James Madison, one of our founding fathers, used his brilliant mind to devise solutions for a new government. He reasoned better than his opponents and could win any argument in a conference room.
However, he lacked the personal magnetism needed to build political bridges and unify factions. That is where his wife, Dolley, excelled. Using her irresistible charm, she made everyone feel welcome and valued. She never forgot a name and knew exactly how to soothe bruised egos. In her drawing room, political rivalries melted away.
Her charisma made her husband’s administration successful and, consequently, helped ensure our nation’s strong foundation.
Passing the Torch to Adele
Looking toward the future, Dolley actively groomed several younger women, teaching them how to read a room and manage difficult personalities.
Specifically, she guided her great-niece, Adele Cutts, who later married the powerful Senator Stephen Douglas. In those dark, fractured days prior to the Civil War, tempers flared and political rivalries grew dangerous. Adele relied heavily on the lessons learned from her aunt.
By maintaining her grace and making her grand home a safe place to gather, she successfully navigated the heated politics of the era. Dolley had forged Adele’s character so she could weather the storm.
Paul’s Pattern of Mentorship
How does this apply to us today?
The Apostle Paul wrote, “And the things you have heard me say in the presence of many witnesses entrust to reliable people who will also be qualified to teach others” (2 Timothy 2:2 NIV).
Paul traveled all over the ancient world sharing the gospel, but he knew the vital importance of his message and refused to let those truths disappear with him. In this passage, the apostle tells his listeners that he is entrusting them with these truths.
To entrust means to commit something to another for safekeeping. Paul knew they would keep the message safe by sharing it with others, who would then pass it on to the next generation. In essence, he wanted to create a perpetual cycle of mentorship. That is a serious legacy!
Finding Your Own Adele
Just as Dolley shared her gifts with the younger ladies in her circle, you can look around your own community and find younger women to invest in. Look for an Adele in your life, and pass along the unique gifts, wisdom, and faith you have been given.
CYNTHIA L. SIMMONS is the mother of five grown children, past president of Christian Authors Guild, radio host, media coach. She writes both fiction and nonfiction and loves history. She ministers to women of all ages but has a special place in her heart for young mothers and homeschool mothers.
